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Julie B
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JulieBtv is a comfortable place to get real about all things relational. Julie Baumgardner is the President & CEO of First Things First, a non-profit dedicated to providing relationship skills to families in her local community and well beyond. She's also a wife, mother and avid gardener. Watch as Julie chats with leading relationship experts, and folks who in the thick of life. Have your own questions for Julie? Send her an email at julie@juliebTV.com.
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 28: What To Do When There's No Passion In Your Marriage
Remember that time when you were a newlywed and passion seemed like it would never fade? Well, like it or not, that kind of passion isn't supposed to last forever. Passion in marriage takes work, and that's okay!
Join JulieB and these three friends as they talk through why passion fades, the dangers of looking for love in all the wrong places, and how you can keep the passion going strong between you and your spouse!
Join JulieB and these three friends as they talk through why passion fades, the dangers of looking for love in all the wrong places, and how you can keep the passion going strong between you and your spouse!
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 27: How To Be A Good Friend
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Everyone wants good friends, but what does it take to BE a good friend to others? JulieB and friends talk through the challenges of friendships, why being a good friend is the key to having good friends, and steps you can take to become the friend you want to have.
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 26: My Baby Has A Food Allergy And People Think I'm Crazy
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As a new mom, there are countless challenges and new obstacles to work through. And when your baby has a food allergy, it adds a whole new level of stress! Join JulieB and two friends as they talk about the real-life fears, hardships, and frustrations of having a baby with a food allergy.
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 25: Building Traditions and Legacy as a Family
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Whether you're wanting to establish traditions as a new family or hoping to change things up a bit, this episode is for you! Join JulieB and three friends as they talk through why traditions matter, how they established traditions as a family, and how to leave a legacy. For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/holiday-traditions firstthings.org/changing-family-holiday-tradi...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 24: What is Cheating?
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Cheating. It's pretty much universally denounced as the worst thing you could do in a relationship, and most people can agree that cheating is wrong. And yet, so much of the media we consume glorifies cheating and we sing along or sit and watch and munch our popcorn. This episode of JulieB TV dives into what defines cheating, why cheating isn't just a physical act, and how you can set clear, st...
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 23: Real Talk: Moms, Life After Baby
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Becoming a mom is one of the most challenging and rewarding things a woman can go through. This episode is all about real conversations with real new moms talking about the real struggles of motherhood. For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/tips-for-first-time-parents firstthings.org/11-tips-for-first-time-parents-from-vogue firstthings.org/mom-take-care-of-yourself firs...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 22: How To Choose Friends That Will Help You Thrive
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Friends shape us. There's no question to that. But how can you choose good friends that will help you thrive? And is it even possible to break off old friendships that you know aren't healthy? These questions (and more!) are answered in this episode of JulieB TV! For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/how-friends-influence-behavior firstthings.org/living-life-with-meaning...
JulieB TV at The Relatable Table | Episode 20: What To Expect After Having A Baby
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You've gotten the nursery ready. You've packed all the bags. You've read all the books. But what happens once you actually HAVE the baby?! That's what this episode is all about! Join JulieB and friends as they talk through the struggles, the joys, and all the unexpecteds after you bring your little one home. From dealing with the grandparents to how to prepare your home, this episode is rich in...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 21: How to Be The Dad Your Child Needs
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CALLING ALL DADS: we're talking to you this episode! Julie and four friends talk through the struggles of fatherhood, the joy that it can bring, and how you can be the best dad possible for your child. It might not always be easy, but it is possible! For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/how-kids-benefit-from-involved-fathers firstthings.org/7-ways-dads-can-connect-with-...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 21: What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew
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I don’t always want you to fix it. I want you to hold my hand and tell me I'm beautiful. Pursue me. Notice me and the hard work I do. Sound familiar? These four wives (and friends) gather around the Relate-Table to talk through some of the key things that they wish their husbands knew! You just might be able to relate to a few of them! For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.o...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 20: What To Know About Letting Your Teenager Date
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Teen dating isn’t a bad thing. It can actually help them grow and mature as they learn more about themselves. But as a parent, the best thing you can do is help your child be prepared! Watch this episode to gain insights, tips, and tools you can use to feel confident about letting your teenager date! For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/things-your-teen-wont-tell-you fi...
JulieB at The Relate-Table | Episode 19: How to Not Let Your Children Hijack Your Marriage
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When kids become a part of a marriage, things can get difficult. From the lack of sleep to the never-ending list of to-do's, a lot of marriages suffer from their children hijacking every part of the relationship. In this episode, JulieB and a few friends talk about the challenges of having young kids, how that changes as they grow, and what you can do to prevent your kids hijacking your marriag...
JulieB TV at The Relat-Table | Episode 18: Dealing With The In-Laws
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Ever think of your in-laws more like out-laws? Or maybe you've started dreading the holidays (and all the complicated family schedules that come with it)? This episode talks through the challenges of making in-law relationships work, the tension that may come from it, and what you can do about it! For more resources, check out these articles: firstthings.org/tips-for-strengthening-in-law-relati...
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 17: How To Have An Amazing, Mind-Blowing Marriage
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Everyone wants an amazing, mind-blowing marriage, but what does that even mean? And is it actually attainable? This episode of JulieB TV, these four friends will talk about the key to an amazing, mind-blowing marriage: intimacy. For more resources, check out these articles from Julie's organization, First Things First: firstthings.org/how-to-increase-intimacy-in-your-marriage firstthings.org/5-...
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 16: Forgiveness In Marriage
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Without forgiveness, marriage relationships crumble. But when forgiveness is done well, both spouses gain a deeper understanding of each other, learn how to work together better, and grow past their differences. Join JulieB and friends as they discuss the difficulties, benefits, and habits of forgiveness in marriage! Looking for more? Check out these articles from JulieB's organization, First T...
Julie B TV Relate-Table | How to Know When You've Found "The One"
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Julie B TV Relate-Table | How to Know When You've Found "The One"
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 14: How to Have Difficult Conversations
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 14: How to Have Difficult Conversations
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 13: Fighting Fair With Your Spouse
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | Episode 13: Fighting Fair With Your Spouse
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 12: Should You Move In Together?
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 12: Should You Move In Together?
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 11: Porn Addiction In Marriage
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 11: Porn Addiction In Marriage
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 10: The Road for Your Child vs. Child For The Road?
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 10: The Road for Your Child vs. Child For The Road?
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 9: The Do's & Don'ts of Social Media for Couples
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 9: The Do's & Don'ts of Social Media for Couples
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 8: The Secret To Being Confident No Matter What
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 8: The Secret To Being Confident No Matter What
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 7: Opposite-Sex Friendships In Marriage
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 7: Opposite-Sex Friendships In Marriage
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 6: When Your Spouse Isn't Fun Anymore
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 6: When Your Spouse Isn't Fun Anymore
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 5: Millennials and Relationships
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 5: Millennials and Relationships
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 4: How To Appreciate The Ways Your Spouse Is Opposite
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 4: How To Appreciate The Ways Your Spouse Is Opposite
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 3: Making Up After a Miscommunication in Marriage
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 3: Making Up After a Miscommunication in Marriage
JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 2: Making Up After a Miscommunication in Marriage
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JulieB TV at The Relate-Table | EPISODE 2: Making Up After a Miscommunication in Marriage
JulieB TV at the Relate-table | Dealing with Communication Breakdowns
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JulieB TV at the Relate-table | Dealing with Communication Breakdowns
This is exactly why women should not be teachers of anything concerning sacred matrimony between what God has joined together. She has absolutely no clue about how sacred marriage is. If I had interest in a woman who was married I would want to get to know her husband so that we ALL can be friends. THIS CHRISTIAN FEMINIST SHOULD BE REBUKED!
You explained it well I’ve been married 17 this past Jan And 6 beautiful kids My wife hasn’t worked in 16 1/2 And she got hired at the school were my daughters go and I work there too Well she has been developing a friendship with a trainer there who is half her age and close to my daughters ( he has a lot of similarities) cool guy I brought up a couple concerns that I felt were over stepping boundaries 1. Was texting all the time and since littering New Year’s Day this has been a make it or break it half year for me that I never went through. We hardly talk- no intimacy- no sex-we drive in separate cars all the time (not my choice) just nothing but BS I’m doing counseling for myself but she don’t want to do as a couple. All I know is that God don’t bring us together and all the ups and downs of our marriage he is not gonna let us be ripped apart over some “you haven’t been there emotionally there for me” I can’t read your mind, say something and that doesn’t give her the right to go to someone else and get that- she makes me feel like she has given up on me and that isn’t cool. Just venting
from a faith perspective no its not ok. i have only seen in my life and in other's lives where lines are too easily blurred. just a bad idea. stick to your partner.
The line is getting married… only a hoe will misrepresent that
I never had family rituals. I am having a very hard time creating some consistency in my home. 😢
Men want a mommy therapist or nurse
The answer is No
There is an easy way to avoid this mess as a man. Do not date, or take any woman seriously who has male friends. If she values the marriage, I am the only non-family male she has a relationship with or there is no relationship.
I personally do have opposite sex friends but anyone interested in me would know that right away as I would introduce them probably pretty soon. So if I were dating you, you could then tell me you do not believe I this and at that time we can part ways as you say. You are right always date those with the same values as you.
All of this
As a guy, I’m now strictly against having female friends. It’s too much unnecessary conflict putting up with guys I don’t want to be bothered with or who don’t want to be bothered with me, it has nothing to do with romance or sex.
There's only one female friend a man needs and thats his girlfriend or wife
These videos would be great if they quit zooming in all the damn time & zoom out bc you dont need to be constantly zoomed in on there face when you can see just fine when the video starts but no the dumb shits need to zoom in like a moron.
...forsaking all others means what then?
Fantasy and fetishes don't only originate from past trauma though... they can also be formed around highly positive emotional states by association as well. You can also "pick up" new fantasies through other people. I'm personally fascinated by all the countless creative ways us humans come up with to express ourselves sexually.
I had an issue with my husband asking his single female friend advice on an issue we were having. She told my husband that I was a Narcissist 🙄 and some other not so favourable things. To say the least, when I found out I was not impressed. Planting seeds of discourse within my marriage is something I do not take lightly. Suffice to say, I made it very clear to my husband that our problems are not for the ears of your female friends, especially the single ones. It’s not wise counsel and can lead down a destructive path. To say the least, she can never be in my presence again. She’s clearly not a friend to the marriage, or me.
You ladies must include sex…. That’s number one….
I do not believe there is ANY point in having 'friends' of the opposite sex when married! There can't be anything to those friendships because it is not healthy to hang out with them alone, have conversations with them alone, or even share personal things with...so that really wouldn't leave anything to those 'friendships'. The spouse is the one who deserves the time, the fun, the personal talks, and such. I would want that from my spouse and by him treating our relationship/marriage with boundaries and protection, it is precious to me and show me he values it. And I have already practiced boundaries with other men even before I'm married
Fantastic advice! Love it.
Very wise.
Don't worry he is just a friend. (Lye)!
Landed here looking for a video from Bedros Keulian (I recommend you give him a try!). Glad to see that everything comes together. Grat video!
Inappropriate
Lol, a woman is giving the facts of what a man needs. If its not #1 fornication. Then no you dont know.
I agree 100% but was hoping to find some specific kinds of routines
Women in the ATL like to become friends with a man that has someone, they can get money from his lil dumb trick azz! If he does not give it to them they will blackmail his dumb azz! Facts! ATL Is filled with trash azz women! The men here fall for a woman that is of lighter skin or has a big funky azz ! Facts!
My man and his mom were trying to force me to like his ex after the bitch who did not know me went around talking about me like a dog with his ratchet fake jealous hearted azz sister n law! He continued to defend those two raggedy azz broads and tried to throw me down the steps over hair short ugly dry hair azz! Facts! That proved to me he is and always has been in love with that tacky dressing scrub hoe!
No they are not. If a man is around a woman a lot eventually he will develop feelings for her especially if he feels the person he is with is not showing him affection! Facts!! Bm are always looking for a s.x mate that’s all they think about!
Can my girlfriend to be friends with the guy she had sex with? Even tho she discussed with me about their boundaries. It seems pretty solid boundaries.
The "boundary" should be that she doesn't associate with men who are not related to her or directly work with her and especially any dude who has dated her or nutted in her.................
From a woman...hell nooo
not a good idea. most modern men wont get into a thing with a woman with lots of guys friends. long term? not worth it. talking to someone else about marriage issues that is of the opposite sex, unless a therapist, is preparing to self indulge. if one wants to remain attached one should not go there. gay friends might be ok but even that's a bit suspect now a days because there are so many grey areas there in the modern world
Probably should not talking about your marriage issues with any friends (it is embarrassing to the other partner and as they are your friend probably would not give unbiased advice). Better to just go to a counselor.
I am a mom of 2 boys currently 9 and 5 (almost 6) and I am constantly trying to improve and grow as a parent.
I am so happy and glad I found your channel!
As a husband, I want the best and try to do my best, but incessantly fall short. My wife and I have a brain-damaged son (birth injury). We had him on the heels of my exit from the Marine Corps (10 years active duty). There are days I want to blow my head off……and there is no end in sight.
When trust is broken, throw the whole relationship in the trash. You can't come back from that. It's like breaking a plate and then gluing it back together. Why do we tell people they need to heal (becoming a whole plate, not shattered or broken) then expect them to stay in a broken relationship where all trust has been crushed. That's why people are bitter. I don't care what anyone says about it. Those people that have those marriage success stories after infidelity are a lie. At least one person is bitter, while the other one is enjoying themselves.
Yes amazing couple..excellent godly example of a Christian couple
I would love to have this episode on Busy Moms TV! 😀
This has been helpful...I appreciate this information particularly in relation to "the thought process" on a particular subject because now, when my husband says "I don't know" after I bring forth a topic that I'd since had time to think over, he's not just saying it to brush things off or avoid talking about it...he just needs time to think on it.
NO! An opposite sex "friend" will become the shoulder to cry on when things hit a rough patch in the marriage and then the devil will open up all the doors to infidelity and an affair. You're playing with fire by having "friends" of the opposite sex in the confines of marriage. I don't care if this approach sounds old school or if haters try and say to me that "you're just an abusive, insecure, jealous, controlling, manipulative person for doing this. Don't you trust your wife?" You bet I do, but I also know that very rarely does a man stay "friends" with a woman who he doesn't have feelings for. And worse of all I can't help but feel those opposite sex "friends" are just waiting in the wings licking their chops for their turns just hoping your marriage will fail. So you bet I see any of these opposite sex "friends" in the confines of a marriage as a threat. I'm about to hit my 30s and still waiting for God's timing to bless me with the wife he has in store for me in His time, but I for one will be making sure I have no other friends of the opposite sex in the picture at all except her. Can't risk any temptations like this. A Christian marriage needs to be guarded/defended like your life depends on it because it literally does. And that means sacrificing existing friendships with the opposite sex so the devil can't tempt you with infidelty and having an affair. Sadly most of my millennial generation doesn't seem to understand this concept.
Well said. You are preparing well with a healthy mindset for protecting that desire of your heart, which God is willing to give you!
Amen 😊 I totally agree 💯
You will have a successful marriage because you understand and enforce boundaries.
Love the Smalleys. Could you speak to recently remarried empty nesters?
This was an awesome video💗 very enjoyable to listen to
Love this insight💕💕 thank you
This is amazing!! Subscribed. Thank you! 🙏🙏
❤ thank you
If it causes conflict in your marriage, pick which one is more important. Your marriage, or your opposite sex friend? I would pick my marriage.
Well, my partner picked his opposite sex friend as more important than me. He said his independence is more important than his relationship.
@@newzealand_travelstories_a8684 Actions speak louder than words. I would have told him, “Bye. We would have made a great couple.” You dodged a bullet. And no, you were not being controlling. I’m sure someone will bring that up. People always say that when someone sets a boundary.
Yes, 100%
Depends on whether you are with a narc or not, or what exactly is the nature of the relationship with your significant other? If you are aware enough as the perpetrator, you could stand back and ask, so what is this friend fulfilling that is not in the relationship? That's a healthy way to look at it. The decision to work it out with the significant other comes at the expense of the friend, more so if it's been relatively long term. Don't forget the friend remains in hope that circumstances will change and otherwise doesn't cross physical boundaries (I know that doesn't apply to everyone reading this). All I'm saying is that there is a reason it happened in the first place - if the attraction is strong, the friend is hanging their hope on that. I was the friend and eventually got stonewalled - hurt like hell.
@@MKA63 basically, it’s a partner prioritizing their wants over your needs. The need for a partner to feel emotionally secure and valued in a relationship. If you advise your partner that it is causing issues, and they still chose the friend, that’s ok. The next thing I would tell them is, “You have the right to choose. I don’t control you. Bye.” There are always consequences for someone’s actions.
Thank you for your motivation and encouragement. You are a 🌟
I will 😊 buy the book
I will buy
Indeed 😊
Good info, but since the 90's, men have had a satanic, spirit of Jezebel feminist target painted on them. The father/man is always portrayed as some version of an incompetent idiot. More recently, men have been feminized. You cannot hardly see a man on film anymore that has masculine qualities. I'm tired of it...
I REALLY enjoyed this!!! It was lovely hearing from their views.
Just picture that cartoon of a dog who's only thinking about his bone to chew on 24/7. That's exactly how men only think about that organ between their legs to fulfill their desires.